Virtual Life

Steady?Being friends means what?Well for starters. I thought fren help fren shud be for no return.. I guess I should think clearly bout this..I lost  my car. And guess what?I was steady and  helpful to give a helping hand whenever  my "friends" are in need?And now??only  a small bundle are willing to help. maybe some are really busy lor..so i am fine wit it .I am helpful when ppl need me.And when I’m in need? Asking people to fetch or  so..luckily..from this event i saw and  learnt who and which friend are true friends..So..I thank them here..ALl  that helped.. I wont be the same anymore..  Thanks for those who offered help.. because this post is simply thanking those who helped..there’s too long alist for those who helped..so i din write lor for those who didnt i dun ask for any return or whatsoever.You  guys are the best.. thanks for those that even  forwarded my mail and message.. Thanks for those who cared  and called me..hehe..Cheers.. Oh yea..some friends that i thought was not so close did help me.. I am honored flattered and "gam dong" and happy for what you did for me…muaks

MY CAR NAMELY "CHE CHE"

1)YELLOW GOLDEN COLOUR ISWARA

2)NUMBER PLATE CBM8016

3)SUBANG SS15/3C

4)WAS STOLEN 29TH AUGUST

YESTERDAY FROM THE DATE OF THIS POST. I WAS ON MY WALKING TO MY CAR AND AM ABOUT TO GO FOR A DINNER WITH ONE OF MY BUDDY.. I WALKED TO THE PLACE I PARKED MY CAR AND IT WASN’T THERE. AT FIRST I THOUGHT IT WAS TOWED BY MPSJ.BUT NO..I WENT TO THE CAR REPOSITORY TO FIND OUT IT WAS NOT THERE.SAD,GLOOMY AND TENSED WAS MY FEELING THEN.THEN MY BUDDY CALEB FETCH ME GO REPORT POLICE AND THEN NOW I AM WAITING FOR RESULT OF THE SIASATAN.I WONDER WHETHER I CAN FIND BACK MY CAR.

MY TOTAL LOST WAS THE CAR ITSELF,BADMINTON RACQUET,SOME BOOKS,SPORT SHOE,RECEIPTS,COMPUTER RECEIPTS,NAME CARDS OF PEOPLE,AND 4 BRAND NEW TYRES AND ETC.

I JUST CHANGED MY TYRES AND IT’S LESS THAN 2 WEEKS FYI。SERVICED MY CAR LAST FEW DAYS. CHANGE THE AIR FILTER. WHEN I START TO REPLACE NEW PARTS FOR THE CAR.SOME MTF STOLE IT.FOR WAT?FOR MONEY OF COURSE. HAHA.. WHY DO PEOPLE DO THIS KINDA THINGS? I PERSONALLY THINK THAT THEY ARE PUBLIC NUISANCE AND LACK OF MORALITY TO DO SUCH THING AS A BUSINESS.WHERE WILL MY CAR END UP?IT’S STILL A RIDDLE. I HOPE THE ROYAL MALAYSIAN POLICE WILL BE VERY EFFICIENT THIS TIME.PRAISE GOD IF THE DO.

2 dozen years ago during the ages when my dad was nearly my age now..There were no internet..handphones are expensive..Cars,fashion everything is totaly different..back then they’re alot of things that was considered in to them but now is totally outdated..Haha..

Well this is the thing..WWW…as mentioned in transformers..is the most "in" thing to our era now..Everything is done online..emails..webpages..file transfer..conference..phones..video calls..all can be done in..what we call the web..

Astonishingly everyone is putting loads of cash in the cyberspace to hope for higher return..because it’s fast,reliable,and the outcome is pretty well..Thus alot of people are developing their own website..

I wont be suprise if a grandpa or grandma are able to create a website of their own that’s popular enough..

Well then..The queestion today is..If you were given unlimited cash to develop a website?What kind of website are you gonna publish?how are you going to market it?What’s the fastest way to let-know ur website..?What kind of customer you target?

Today’s title was a contribution from a friend of mine called willy years ago. A motto often used by him that marked a powerful memory in my brain and also future. What does this motto means?

Yes..Not too much..not too less..

Yes..Not too little sugar..too little salt..

Law of Averages..Haha..how come this is in…I think my english is too bad and i am far too naive for anything

Well..If something happened and you wanna scold someone..which is the best way..

1st:F*** YOU

2nd:Hei..becareful of what you’re saying

3rd:Excuse me, I am sorry

1st and 3rd wont be my choice.2nd might be the choice…Well..I wont tell the answer.. Write in some comments bout ur choice..then u might know..later or sooner…

Well..or maybe this example..let’s find an average person with an average work to the a test on diabetic..

Let him have access to unlimited sugar base food/cravings..he might end of to be diabetic

Vice versa if he don take sugar at all..his sugarlevel or blood pressure goes low..

So the best way is average it out..

Don’t be an extremist that chose the path to total condemnation. It’s not healthy the way I look at it..

This thing applies to our everyday human’s life..When you praise someone don’t too over..It’d be fake..

When u are mad try not to scold someone.. You might lose a fren..

When you’re hungry dun eat too much..you’d gain indigestion and probably like my fren..had to cut a portion of the intestine or something la..cant remember that part..

vice versa don try to take even more…it might end up the same..

Well..After 50 years of nationhood. Multi racial environment..What can you see from all these? I wonder what was the life our fore parents had when they got here before the independence declaration was signed?Life must be tough. We could live in such harmony and prosperity should we thank the 3 father of independence or should we thank the community or the residents of this great country. Everything happens for a reason. And the reason for our merdeka is that we are able to maintain and rule our own country without other country’s help. Well..What do you think at this point?I think we are doin good and I feel we can be greater than our current status..Haha..But the question is how?

It’s a disgrace for me to say that for a mere rm6 now i am charged for rm 40 .. this is sad news for me when i was on my way back to my car and saw MPSJ parking ticket wet and stuck as display on my wiper.. To think that it was just another promotion/advertisement..Well folks there’s one thing i feel funny.. remember our history books writing there that the land belongs to everyone? and the Heroes of Malaya had fought those invaders a.k.a foreigners using this tag? I felt the doubt that any of us remembered. So why now merely parking needs me to pay?is not that i never pay for road tax?don’ tell me billions of ringgit a year in tax is not enough to cover the expenses in repair..I need to pay toll after paying road tax. What does that mean? I pay road tax for other usage?hmm..I have no idea and no other comment about this already..

18/8/2007-midnight

People say if u colud admit ur weakness u are a saint..it’s hard for people to agree that. But i agree. so here it goes..after being through so much i finally wanna write these blog of mine..

1)Patience忍耐。其实这个是我一向来都有的问题。不知道为何我就是却没忍耐。每个人都说我做东西很快。快到连朋友也会讨厌我。。虽然知道这个事实可也无法改变得了什么。我真失败。就比如说msn时我就却不能等人家慢慢的回复我。我就明知人家不得空还这样。。镇没用。。在需要时间来改变。。

2)Thinking想法。就照着我兄弟ah wah来说。每个人有自己的想法。我就却会跟人家说我想法。哈哈。我读过一本书说。电话公司曾进做过个示范。一天里面最多重复的字就是“我“。。我看你也明白我要说的是什么吧！

3）Promise答应。有时答应人家的是我却无法办得到。因为，很多时候。就是太忙了。所以没有变。可是还好有些好的朋友还明白。但有时就是因为爱睡的关系所以没办法。伤心

4)Friends朋友。我就是太过看重友情了。每次都想跟朋友打好关系。可就因为这样吓他们。放心我不是做保险或对你有什么企图。只是不喜欢和朋友失去联络。就那么简单。而且，最遗憾的是曾进很到感情就突然变少见面了。所以就会一直向本人问题所在。如果你们觉得有。也请告诉我吧。别收自在心里

5)Career工作。我也在烦恼这个问题。我没时间出早我的方向就这是跟着天说安排给我的路。而且我有很多东西相左。可是就却想不到什么方式去开始。又怕不成功.又怕会不会有问题。又怕不够钱。又怕很多东西。。海。。。也不知道要坐哪一样先。镇烦恼，做电脑不是不好。可是我什么都喜欢才死了。。

6）Health健康。没什么人可以在两年时间去开刀三次的了。想一下我就是了。所以健康我真得很差。每运动。没吃健康的英廖。什么都没有。我也不知道搞什么鬼。有时在想就回家算了什么也不想就回去跟叔叔打工就好了吧。少烦恼人都会健康点

7)Money金钱。。给我钱是永远不够。因为我不容易瞒住。我希望可以有钱。买我喜欢的东西。坐我一向来想做的事情。又想到legacy就是我希望可以留下个纪念给我后代。这两个东西都是在我脑海中响了很久

there’s still so much to say bout my problems and weakness..untillnext time

to be continued..

18/8/2007-morning

Here I continue my weaknesses.

8)Feeling感觉。每个人都会叫我做回自己。可是我就却不能做到.原因？没有只是觉得我很有问题而且是每次会得罪到身边的朋友的。。我很怕回龙他们生气。哈哈有很不耐烦每次都这样。。啊啊啊。有什么好的意见。请别客气的告诉我。谢谢

9)Business生意。为什么人家会那么成功。而我还在蒙中呢?还是我太笨但了.或许是因为我没头脑去想到第有没有好的东西给我做呢.可是我发觉很多人’给我很多机会我就却不会怎样去珍惜有搓澡那里呢?矛盾…

10)Procrastinate拖延时间.我发觉另一个最大问题就是我很喜欢拖.每次我都会找借口来拖延时间.为什么?哈哈..我看到很多成功人士都不会浪费时间在无谓的东西.我就确实会这样做

11)Humane人情味.我昨天和好几个朋友相见.就有一些给我做人的道理.首先要感谢他们.我做人可能太有人情味所以就会一直的烦到人家.我也不知道镇么说才好.可是就是令人讨厌的那种.

12)Question问题.在问题中的问题.是不是很奇怪了?来就由我来告诉你好了.我每次都会问人家.我欧没有问题.因为我对自己没信心.在加上觉得本人很有问题.性格方面就是无可原谅的那种.每年最少一次都会傻去的.所以大家希望你明白.因为很多人坐宫后都变了.就因为在公司无法说出真心话所以一旦习惯了就不再跟我说真心话.有些就说人一定会是最了解自己的.所以问自己.哈哈.很好的答案.可是我不会!

Problem still alot.if u feel any just comment.lazy to write so much..Lazy also one weakness..by the way..my mandarin sure got wrong 1.so please help me rectify the errors please.thanks

1. Do what you love.
Everyone loves to do something, when you indulge yourself in your love
you improve the way you feel about yourself. You improve your self
esteem.

2. Help others out.
Nothing makes you feel a warm glow than when you unselfishly help
others. of course you can argue that this in itself is selfish, but if
you take that line of thought you must think that existence is selfish.
Forget that. Just do a good deed, help someone out, doesn’t have to be
big and it doesn’t have to cost any money.

3. Acknowledge your strengths
There is no one who has no strengths. Everyone is good at something,
know what your good at and give yourself a pat on the back. Do things
that bring this quality out into the open. Excercise it, make it
stronger.

4. Don’t put up with crap.
There is no reason you should tolerate other people being mean to you.
Even if they say they are doing it with love. Make sure people know
they should be nice to you and if they refuse, walk away from them.

5. Drop your negative friends.
Hang out with people who are positive and support you. It may be fun to
bitch and moan but if you hang out with these types of people you will
eventually become one of them. You may have noticed that people who
bitch and moan are never happy.

6. Do your research
A lof of self help books are a waste of time in the sense that the only
person who can change you is you. Reading even this blog post will not
change you unless you get emotionally involved with the information.
Which is really hard as it’s really dry and boring. Go read biographies
of people you respect, people who do positvive things and attain huge
success. Learn from the master not the self help guru who is always in
debt.

7. Learn to accept compliments.
It’s hard to accept a compliment and not to dismiss it as being
ridiculous. Someone has an opinion and it should be respected, even if
you do not argree with it. If people think good about you then maybe
you should too.

8. Include positivity in your life.
I’m not talking an airy fairy chant in the mirror whilst naked. I mean
take a positive slant on everything automatically. The meat pie you
just bit in to may contain maggots, but maggots contain a lot of
protien. OK that’s a bit extreme but you get the point.

9. Compare yourself against yourself.
If you look at how you were yesterday and how you are today and there
is an improvement then that is great. If there is no improvement then
you know you need to improve your efforts. Don’t start comparing your
self to other people. Saying you are poor compared to D. Trump is just
going to make you miserable.

10. There is no need for you to put yourself down.
y seeing yourself in a negative light you are only reinforcing your low
self esteem. If you want to improve your self esteem. Ask yourself, how
can I improve my self esteem. The answer will always be, find one
positive thing about yourself and that will do it.

we always has to subdue or apologize even when those things we say is true. I won’t say this post is regarding what matter but some people or community just don’t learn. they just tend to cover things up rather than face it and upgrade themselves. Recently there’s a case as such. But what he wrote in his song is 100% true and guess what. he’s blamed for being true to himself and his thoughts. Even apologies would not make him change his mind of the things he feel. In fact a successful person should take critics as it is and change not just cover things up. Taking up challenge will make someone more matured and great and powerful. but instead they tend to cover things up and forget bout the issue.

some people or org just  don’t learn. as the saying goes paper cant cover fire. one day when the fire gets too big it gets even worse. humans not born yesterday. So sure they will know what happen

Haha it’s been so long talking about events that i forgot mainly is bout theory’s so here goes.. This comes from 988 also. It’s called “三分钟领悟”. Let’s make a test. Are you result oriented or procedure centric? For me result is the most important thing. regardless of how do it in the process. I dun care. But alot of company mainly traditional company and also alot of managers, those old thinkings ones always are procedure centric. They always think their way is the most correct way and they don’t accept new ideas. This is why always you see staff quarrel is between old people and young. Both with own ideology. Both are correct but both are wrong the same. Why? Because i am result oriented and i think both way could lead to same result but why should you be so sceptical bout the other. But then you can’t stick to one way forever. You must upgrade yourself. This is what toyota org is doing. They don’t care how u do it. Example A + B = 9 they only care bout how u reach now. You go think the A and B should be what combination. Then you propose and debate amongst other people as well to fetermine the best solution. This way you could upgrade yourself. I am not saying old thinking is wrong. It has gone thru alot of trial and test so it should be 100% correct. but this idealistic is gone thru trial so that future people might benefit from it as well.. Don’t be too egoistic to think your way is definitely correct and your thinking will only be the one true solution. There’s nothing perfect in this world so is your thinking. And there’s no exact twin in this world too. Even twins has same DNAs but they might be different. So dont force people to be like you. They are not obligated to follow. In our society is different. We are more to fix A + B equation type. workers seldom brainstorm or take effort to improve because our environment is still learn and apply. other countries are always learn modify apply. We must drop the ego and follow people. they modify to suit our woking environment then be better in using this way than others. Oh yea.. "Be ego and proud if u can and ‘when’ you can. not while you can". By just saying proud to be X is useless. Be only really proud if you are overwhelming. compare not with useless competitors compare with higher grounds. And with little achievement don’t brag too loud or show off. that’s just what I call stupid and childish. I like to use one word.. We’re not born yesterday. so whatever someone,something or some organisation,state,country or world do. Please understand that we’re not born yesterday. So quit persuade or convince us that you’re good or something. Time will tell. And it always do.