Virtual Life

i went ice skating that day with my special someone..haha..it was fun..two stupid person with no knowledge on skating went for it..i went for a badminton session few days before with buddy willy and soon and some of their frens..and sprained my leg..but still skating was fun..i am hoping that dason will teach me soon..cause he is a pro skater(on ice)..i went for four rounds but drop limitlessly..erm..numerous times will be a better choice of words..haha..but i am trying to be honest bout my sucky english..ice skating..hmm… hope i can master it and do a wedding on ice..haha..where every1 wears skates..and fell like hell.haha

just a though but it will be very romantic..haha..how can some1 balance on ice..sigh..i suck at tat..and why?well..maybe i don balance well..or maybe i got fat..dunno the real reason..just i know for sure i cant skate..damn cha..well till next time..tata

well since i had a gathering with ex-colleague(now good frens) 1st. I would like to start with it. Well firstly i would like to thank them. For helping me out in every single way during my sweet days in KIAN JOO CAN FACTORY BHD. It’s a splendid company with the most frenly colleagues the world have ever seen. Bless the higher bosses for their effort on this. ok..here goes.. i went in there to work exactly 2 years ago at july17th thanks to my ex-boss Mr Tan who was nice enough to bring me in. I thought i will die. For that was my 1st job after grad. But to heaven’s blessing, i met a bunch of colleagues that are very close and still are. I’m happy.

They help me out in eventually everything. They dun mind sharing and most importantly politics dun exist. They are willing to teach in every single way. They are also very helpful and not stingy in any way u can think of. Bless them to be rich and healthy for being such nice and noble people. I am glad god send me to this company for my first challenge in life. I met Andy,Yap,Sam,Patrick,Goh,Hanz,Nata,HP and nelson(who brought me in to this splendid plcae then) (names listed is not set to preference i like all of them)too many names so will oni target my dept mates. They are funny.yet efficient.brilliant yet humble.decent and wit class.

I had a karaoke gathering today with them today. I thought for so long there will be a gap since i no longer are colleagues with them. But it happened naturally for me. They accepted me for being an ex-colleague. Again points for their attitude. We sang.together and some solos by them. although my voice isnt great ..in fact it sux but they accepted me with no remorse and complaints. Haha. What kind of person are they.So special..So nice..

But at certain point i recalled my ex-gf..she was a splendid girl that always was there for me. Always accompany to this occasion. Although she seldom socialise but she was just …always there..Haha..maybe life’s like tat. Gone then cherish but if not gone…dunno wat might happen..Well.. for now i think me and her can maintain certain relationship till i get more matured..

Back to the topic..Today was also the 1st day I went karaoke with nelson. he’s a great singer but he’s too humble to perform in front of us.haha..

Then i came home and saw another of my best frens wei ren and dason..i met them alot but never get bored with their jokes and actions..they are really cool but franky was no where to be seen. and yeah i saw ah soon..he was a guy that helps ppl alot..frenly and nice..one of the 1st pioneer frens i have in kl..after my dad fetch me throw me wit two bags and went back kuantan..well at least he did fetch me..ah soon taught me alot of stuff back then..the life and ways in kl..but before i have any contact with this marvelous person there comes buddies that is also today’s topic

After so many years. after keeping in touch with every1 for so long finally it had come to the day. where we can finally have our gathering of hostel good buddies. I hope i can do that with all my frens no matter who u r. Gathering fosters good relationship and refreshes memories.

Today,me,ben,kalesh,joe,ah soon,willy,joshua,terry,arvin,chee khian and etc(not to say dowan mention name just that they havent confirm whether they are coming here’s the list,ah boy,kee lim,sudhir,yong jen,cheong,jazz,stephen choy).Well we were once very very good buddies that does everything together except for private stuff lar of cuz..haha…we can stand few days without sleeping and wat..merely chatting all the way. I used to like big gatherings.combine groups of fren but today i dun anymore..there’s ah soon’s group of fren tat i din gather with..yet..hope 1 day can lar..and also dip and degree classmates and some outside frensa and hometown frenz..i hope one day we can do a small gathering..maybe a supper session and talk loud and happy bout past present and future stuff..so i believe this is life..i believe money u can make but frens are life time(quoted by ben)..after 21 years old ppl u still mix wit will forever be frens(quoted by stephen choy)..well we havent plan on the agenda yet..cause ppl outgrow others sometimes(quoted by willy but not sure it’s 100% same as his version) so we have to plan everything according to every1 budget..interest..and dislikes..

Well til the next blog only i can say the outcome of this gathering..haha..ok then this is another part..i got along quite well with few person lately..namely..luis lu,dason,franky, yiming(and the not so good gam ching robert,jia hou)but still they are great. I never had met a group of fren tat cancrap,laugh,crap,laugh the whole night long..haha..tat’s fun fun fun…none stop topic brainstorms..ahha..especially luis n franky..and they accepted me with open arms..thank them that too..

Well i know there’s so many things events happenings and people i missed in this blog..but i promise one day i will sure write it..haha..take care till then..if u got read this blog

What has gotten into us? The previous generations suffer less health problems and live probably longer than us. Their maximum life timespan is far more longer than us and guess what..their technology is far more not adcance than us..Face it..Stress..Environment..Ecosystem..Food..Weather has made us more prone to disease and sickness. Advanced in technology has cured us of some death sickness but also brought forward certain.. Stress makes humans impotent.. Defects in newborn.. Migraine all the time.. And when people look towards to relax sometimes they do stuff that they shouldnt do..rape..kill..fights..drinking alcohol..smoke..etc..All this will also bring health problem to you..and people beside you..

I wonder.. when will our race go extinct considering the way we live our life..yes..inevitably humans do evolve to suit the environment..but what if there’s nothing left to suit.. so.. try to be humble with the earth,people surrounding you..and so much.relax abit.. imagine this..take a cup of water and hold it in front of u,ur hand parallel to the earth..then..how long can u stand holding it.. ? Why don’t you put in down or pour the water away? Life’s like this in a way. humans tend to bring job back to home..wat u keep thinking would not solve the problem during after work.. So put down ur cup of water after work.. Like what i always say..u just a leverage,a stepping stone, someone who’s being used(if u are under emplyoment) so why shud u bring stress and decrease ur health level for ur merely a praise,money or ego..begone with those.. they can only buy u an early coffin..so relax sometime

Dull..Blur..Lost..Total breakdown..Well this is the feeling I get recently.. Honestly i hadn’t had the courage to write this ever since things gone bad between me and her.. I thought a chillout or so called cooldown period can mend things out but it turned out to be my worse nightmare. I thought this chill out period can let me concentrate on my work,career and etc. And in turn she can also concentrate on her study and etc. But.. things didn’t turn out as i expected.

Let me tell u the story of our relationship. There was once this girl from Penang came over to KL on her own to pursue her studies in a college called KTAR and she stay in a double storey house in Jalan Genting Kelang.There i met her. Well,I just woke up and I saw this girl coming in with her bf and a friend. The funny thing is I kept looking at her whilst she was with her bf. I couldn’t agree better that ego had consumed me to believe I won’t like a girl so easily. Days passed and she moved in. I even was stupid enough to ask my buddy to go after her..Haha..What a splendid idea ain’t it?Well..I couldnt recall the reason why i did that..But it sure’s funny.Many stupid and illogical things happened and we got together. As i was saying. she didn’t like me then. But still we were together. Back then i did everything i could to cherish her. Then something happened. Her ex came back and look for her. And she was drowned in dilemma. Suffocating and yet I still increase the momentum of cherishing her every bits. I thought everything was lost all a sudden. And my passion and heart and actions had allow her to make a clear decision which is to choose me. Well.. in such circumstances I was extremely happy.Then days passed and we enjoy our memorable periods of happiness. Then came career period. I realize life can’t go on just like that.Career and study is totally a different thing altogether. But life still goes on and I start to neglect this wonderful being’s existence.She’s still the love fo my life but I start to choose my career path more than anything. She stays home waiting for me.(As she seldom mix with people). And I being a person that enjoys socializing I choose the path to friend instead of love. Well.. if you ask me whether i regret. I will say no. but i do regret at my time management skill. If i had manage nicely things wouldn’t go wrong. Now, I still enjoy the moments with friends. But I also enjoy moments with her.Because to me..friends,family and love are equally important. I understand that in this world friends are important and inevitably so.

Talk back about her. She didn’t know how to cook. But she learned and i taught. Dinner is server will be the term i will use whenever i reach home from a tough day’s job. She will ask me what happened or any special events had happened. Being a scorpio that I am. I  refuse to answer and that was the beginning of all hell breaks loose.

I can say that she used to be a spendthrift. Using money like the flow of the tap water as the chinese saying goes. but then after long hours of lecturing and confrontation. She lost the habit and now she’s just a person that buys wat is needy and that’s all. She starts to value money.

The biggest difference is that we are both in different world right now. We are working VS student mindset. Haha..Maybe you guys would think rather the opposite.. Actually is me who’s the immature 1. I still enjoy hanging out and companions of sorts. Friends.. I mean true friends have told me that being able to find a person that loves you is hard. And being able to find a person that you love is harder. and being able to find this two in the same person is the hardest. I should cherish. But the naive side of me tells me that I can submit to such foul believe but my love for her subdues it sometimes. SO this two believes are fighting inside me. And that’s the reason I wanna have 1 year’s time to concentrate in every other way than that. But what happen recently is that . This was totally my own idea. I did not consult nor ocnvince her about any of this. Stupid me..Haha..She wants time alone. And I find that time alone once in a while will be sweet. But if it’s a daily routine it will start to sore..If i am 30 now and not as immature as now i am. Then I might have gotten married provided i have a stable income base.

Well i wanna write bout something. but i can’t think of anything better than a bottle of Cok* . Well.. let us take a moment of the world today..

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Let us take a moment to recall from the history book hundreds of years ago

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Well..now let’s think bout a bottle of cok#. I can’t find something more general that everyone knows. And coke is the best thing i can think. OK. Why does one bottle of cok* has that makes it so irresistable. if you are an-anti soda person then think of something you like to eat drink and play and connect to what i am about to type in.. And connect it with people now and hundreds of years ago..where there’s till peace..

Well Cok#.. let us categorised what makes up a cok*..

the bottle- don’t neglect this. it makes up a cok& after all

Carbon dioxide, carbonic acid - the gas

the flavouring - for the special irreplacable taste

some acids  - for their special ingredients.

water= without water nothing everything might be just powder

Ok enough of explaining the ingredients. I have realized 1 thing. If above is just what contented in a bottle of cok*. what will happen if one of them is mixing? haha.. it wont be the famous cok* anymore. Haha. Wondering this is true. You can drop me a comment of ur ideas. Without the acide we lose some flavouring and burning sensation. without the flavour. it would just be a normal soda water.without the carbonising the gas wont be there. and without the bottle/container you can’t hold it right and without water you can dillute anything. Try thinking this in a company. Inter-relations..Manager=bottle,secretary=flavour,clerk=CO2,salesperson=water,general worker..Haha although is stupid.. think clearly if together they are 100%.. What if 1 of them resigned?

Third example to bake a normal cake.. Well i choose butter cake cause i did it a few times. Flour,self-raising flour,sugar,egg,container,beater,colouring,some milk..Without 1 of this..the whole things goes into garbage bin.

try thinking bout our community this days. if everyone makes up abit of those ingredients i think cok* will cease to exist. Butter cake will never be baked. a company will went out of workers. Why? I feel there’s this materialistic issue. Relations based on money.

Then there is this dissimilar in beliefs.

Maybe sooner worse still.. Someone will come and tell you..cheh your eye colour is different dont get near me..

blah blah blah..why cant we be like a bottle of coke?a cake?shit dudes and babes out there… We are even worse than a cok*..

haha..

no offense but sometimes this does happen right?

well y should we compare? we are just humans after all..but then again without comparing no one will upgrade thhemselves. Right?contradiction..Nothing is certain..Just like which came first chicken or egg?

but then again people change most of the time. try not to change to a person that people hate..that’s bout it..jan ne

I thank the few that took their time to add in a few comment. I agree i am childish and stupid. but thanks to you guys. i regain certain amount of comfy and confidence. And i wish to take this chance to congrats everyone that you are still alive today to read my post. And in this world there’s nothing better than staying alive. Maybe there’s some who’s heart broken..for love, for arguement,work stress,secret admiring,sick,jobless,etc please remember that as long as you are alive you’re still a winner. Many might not have passed yesterday. But pray for them as they had went to heaven. And pray for yourself that you are still who you are when you read this. There’s nothing worth too much than a person’s life.Some might commit suicide,some might lost life’s hope and some might think to try dangerous actions. Well it’s true in one’s life we should at least enjoy something memorable. But think of the people beside you before you act. Everyone is born with a parent. Regardless they’re alive or not. Regardless that you are a orphan. you still have the bio parents. Remember everyone life is important. Everything is interconnected. Maybe you don’t believe but i seriously do. I can’t remember the name of one movie. There’s this group of scientist travelled back thru time to check on the dinos. Little that they know accidents happen and one of them accidentally killed a butterfly. Wahlah..Everything changes..Affected the current timeline too.. So if you dont want to be responsible for this kinda dejavu.. Please cherish ur life no matter how miserable you feel..Drop me a call or a message if you have any problems. More than willing to assist.

Definitely a nice game I can say.. Well one of my closer colleagues sorta bring this nice game back to my life. The first time i ever played this game was like 7 years ago in a pool center where all the pool tables were pre-occupied and I was left with no choice but to wait. Playing the game with another friend who went along to actually play pool. We were amateurs just filling our time with something rather than sitting around smoking.

Last week my colleague of mine brought me to his usual foosball center and i had quite a game. Well it didn’t turn out well at all for me. But i realize there’s alot more to this game than just pushing the ball eveywhere

Got this from the net

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Moves

There are many simple moves in foosball that players can learn almost immediately.

• The Push - The ball is pushed laterally across the playing field and then men are tilted out of its path. The player then rotates back towards the ball when it has reached the desired position.
• The Pull - Like the push, but the ball is pulled towards the player before striking.
• The Rollover - The ball is trapped just ahead of the man. The bar is then rotated counter-clockwise while at the same time moving the rod either towards or away from the player to make a spiral with the man. The man strikes the ball when the bar has rotated all the way around to its starting position. This is also known as the "snake shot".

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Well he showed me alot of those special moves and it’s kinda tempting. Seeing his wrist turn far greater than Sharapova’s screwball. And scoring goals that I can’t even see the ball move. But the sound effects were great. Up and all that it’s a game that needs loads of practice and determination. I think i can live with that though. Cheers for you peter..Cheers..Well for now ..Salukes…And by the way.I lost 9 out of 9 rounds of the game..Hehe..Well at least i tried

Well. I don’t know what happen but I was told not to contact one person that hold grudge on me without me knowing what actually went wrong. It all happened yesterday when i was thinking that who i left out from my little gathering the coming fornight. I called this guy namely MR XXX and he call me not to call him anymore. I then think through ,made a few confirming calls and asking around and finally i conclude that I never offended him in anyway. Well, from a reliable resource it seems that I was misunderstood as his friend stealer. He told certain amount of our mutual friends that I stole his friends What the heck is that? Well.. I was blur and sad until my best friend who lives in Sri Pelangi classify that as an immature act?Well but then again I shouldn’t believe what comes out from other’s mouth do i? Well me who has no connection whether positive or negative was told not to call him anymore and another of my best friend who once had a certain situation with Mr XX received his reply. Well I think the only possible reason would be I killed his parents or raped his gf to deserve such treatment!! Well I think i should give up on such immature person anyway. I still which him luck though.

Well let’s discuss the topic friends stealing. Can it be done?Since i thought it over for a night I think I can joke around with this situation of mine. Is there any shop who sells friends? Or does friendster provide such features?Hmm.. Or maybe going out for an outing with your best friends makes me a temporary friend stealer?

Does Malaysia government charge me for stealing people’s friends? Is there any section that I will be charged of? That’s a funny story dudes.Hmm..So..Let me phrase this nicely. If you are a friend of a person who thinks friends can be stolen then congratulation you’re an item that can be stolen. With no heart no movement no judgement or whatsoever..You can’t retaliate when you are stolen..You are a prize..

For me friends are mates,brothers,buddies. You have your own thinking, in fact, even Mr XX dowan answer my call he’s still a friend. Why people grow up fast. According to a friend, people change every 3 months. Me? I try to maintain friendship through the rest of my life. My buddy Stephen Alex Choy said once. Friends known after age of 21 could remain friends forever. I trust him in this. Plus, humans like comfort and happiness. And humans changes all the time.. Their needs and comfort and thoughts change thru time too. So people tend to mix with different groups of mates throughout their life. So if people seldom come out to meet you up you could say..His current group of friends stole him?Or his room stole him?Online game stole him?Or sleep stole him.Haha..Well I think the next addition to Ocean’s saga should make a movie of  them stealing other’s friend. That might actually work

it’s been months since my break up with the girl i love. well despite of breaking up i still think i love her but the problem is with the difference is concept,perspective and attitude and changing this will make us no longer us. So let time tell the future that withholds everything..she’s still in my pic section though..nv change them cause no point

I went to change my IC the other day.Guess what?15 person and it took me 2 and a half hours. God!!!Well obviously i praise the counters and the beautifying job but then definitely not the workers there. Imagine these. In the middle of working they went out for lucnh when there’s still many. Wel i can’t blame them for that. Healthy lunch at the correct time is always a good practice. But at least do 1 or two more to reduce the crowd.

then i dun understand 1 thing important.. Why do i have to go thru the whole process of doin a new IC but actually only my IC’s chip has problems. What the heck dude? Such a nice office and stuff but why?They should at least skip process like taking for photos. I assume they should have a database of all the information and records right?